My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, but his profile online still said %26quot;single.%26quot; I commented on his profile and joked saying that he was lying about his age and his relationship status. Later I asked him about it on the phone and he said that he had seen the comment before...he had never told me that before and he still hadn't changed it. He told me that he rarely goes on that site and hasn't changed his profile in at least a year. He told me that he might go on the site more often in a few weeks and then I was like %26quot;but you're still not gonna change it are you?%26quot; and he was laughing and said %26quot;nope.%26quot;
It bothered me so much because I know that some girls comment on his site and he comments back. So I brought it up again (in an online conversation since we are currently long-distance) and told him that I was starting to get angry about it. He kept saying that he was so sorry and apologized a lot and I asked him when he was going to change it and he said he didn't want to tell me because he didn't want to lie to me. After arguing about it for a little bit, he finally changed his profile drastically.
I'm glad that he did change it, but I still don't understand what the deal is with that. It takes 5 seconds to change your relationship status, and he obviously logs onto the site every so often to comment on girls' profiles. So why did it take so much to get him to change it? I just don't understand. He is great with me in person and we are pretty serious so what is up with the stupid site?Why would he not change his relationship status on a social networking site?you want an honest answer ill give you an honest answer you say you dont
get what the big
deal is when really your
making a big deal out of it
there are lots of people who
are seriously in love with each
other and there status says single
i cant believe you rely on an internet
site for people to know hes taken since
he rarely gets on it your making something
thats not a big deal into a big dramatic problem
no one needs drama in there life make it easy and
stop the dramaWhy would he not change his relationship status on a social networking site?Some people feel they are %26quot;single%26quot; until they are married. It doesn't matter who they are dating, how long they been dating, if they are engaged or living with their true love. Until they are actually married, some people feel they are single. That whole marriage thing is very strong word for how some people feel.
I understand he only need to change it to.. in a relationship, with someone, dating etc.. whatever he changed it to. However he may feel the same way as those who feel about marriage.Why would he not change his relationship status on a social networking site?Either:
1. He still wanted to flirt to other girls
2. He didnt think it was a big deal..
Lets hope for the 2nd
%26amp;%26amp; even if its the first.. it doesnt mean he doesnt want to be with you
Guys can be stupid
